Social Media in Divorce

April 22, 2012adminNo CommentsDissolution - General, Uncategorized , , , , , ,

Facebook Leads to Bigamy Arrest.  The headline read something like that a few weeks ago in the newspaper which, being a divorce attorney, caught my attention.  A man had been married, separated from his first wife, changed his name, moved and a few years later married a second time.  If you are on Facebook, you know that it will suggest people you may know based on location, friends, groups, etc.  Apparently, Facebook suggested to wife #2 that she “friend” wife #1 because they may know each other.  Somehow wife #2 realized this was wife #1 and then discovered it was not ex-wife #1!  The police were called and husband now faces bigamy charges.  Oh, the powers of the internet and social networking.

Facebook creates relationships and, apparently, destroys others.  In this age of social media, people are finding long-lost loves and friends. I am hearing more and more people say, “Facebook ruined my marriage.”

Arizona is a no-fault state, meaning that under the law, a spouse does not need to prove that they are entitled to a divorce.  Wrongdoing (such as an affair) during a marriage rarely is considered by the court, except in certain circumstances.  However, Facebook entries are becoming increasingly relevant in child custody cases, such as when one parent is trying to prove the other has a drinking problem.   What may seem like an innocent/funny status update of “Out with friends at the bar until 3 a.m., so drunk I forgot to take out my contacts before I passed out” or something similar may be used against that parent in court.  Or, of your 500+ “friends” one may try to take advantage of an empty house when you say, “Heading to the airport to leave for the Bahamas for 2 weeks!”  Be careful of what you post and when you “check-in” places – it’s like leaving your garage door open with a big sign that says, “I’m not home, come take what you want!”

Bottom line – Facebook is not private.  Even with privacy settings, if its posted online, what you post or who you friend may come back to haunt you!

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